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People are obsessed with the scale even when on a calorie deficit. They do not realise that weight can fluctuate daily but remains stable over the month.
Weight includes water, muscles, organs, bones, fat, and unexcreted waste products. The scale may show fluctuations in muscle mass and hydration levels, rather than actual fat loss, which can be frustrating.
Most people struggle to stay in a calorie deficit because they think the goal is to eat less food, but it’s actually to eat fewer calories. Restricting your diet for weeks triggers constant cravings, which eventually make you give in and eat everything in sight on a massive binge.
You want to eat as much food as possible within your calorie target; that’s the real secret to sustainable weight loss.
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If you have a heavy meal, you are more likely to weigh more as your body digests it, while if you eat less, you might weigh less. Weight loss is not fat loss because the body tends to maintain a specific weight range, known as the weight setpoint.
Here’s what the scale actually measures:
The human body is constantly changing. Things move in and out, transforming as they go. Your weight can fluctuate by 2-5 pounds in a single day due to:
This is why you can be losing fat but the scale stays the same (or even goes up).
The reason behind weight loss through calorie deficit is that when the body lacks sufficient calories from food, it taps into stored fat for energy. However, several factors can influence how effectively you lose weight.
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Humans think they are only burning calories in the gym. The truth is, your body burns calories in multiple ways, and not all of them show up as immediate weight loss on the scale.
The body burns calories every second, every day, to stay alive. Blinking, breathing, or your heart beating, all of it burns calories.
According to an article in the Harvard Griffin GSAS, only 5% of the calories we burn daily are through planned exercise.
We burn fat in four main ways:
This is the energy your body uses to keep you alive:
Even when you’re resting or sleeping, your body continues to burn hundreds of calories, accounting for about 60–70% of your total calorie burn.
Every time you eat, your body works to digest and process that food. This process also burns energy, usually about 10% of your daily calories.
According to Precision Nutrition, not all foods require the same energy to digest. Protein-rich foods take more energy to digest. The body uses 20 to 30% of its calories to burn proteins, 5 to 10% for carbohydrates, and around 2% for fats.
This is why high-protein diets work. You’re literally burning more calories just by eating protein. That is why a higher-protein meal makes losing weight easier, as it takes less time for the body to break down the protein and reach the stored fats.
These are all the small movements you do that aren’t planned exercise:
NEAT can vary by 2,000 calories per day between active and sedentary people. That’s more than most gym workouts burn! NEAT can make a big difference in how many calories you burn each day without realizing it.
This is the energy you burn during planned workouts, including gym sessions, runs, cycling, and more. While workouts matter, EAT actually accounts for a smaller percentage of daily calorie burn than most people think.
Surprised it’s so low? Most people overestimate the number of calories they burn during exercise, which leads to overeating afterward.
TDEE (Total Daily Energy Expenditure) = BMR + TEF + NEAT + EAT
When all four are added together, we get our daily calorie burn or TDEE. A calorie deficit means eating less than your TDEE. Simple in theory. Complex in practice.
Understanding why weight loss fails for most people starts with understanding these four components.
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This is the number one reason the scale won’t move. Your body can retain water and can add 2-10 pounds overnight due to:
The frustrating part? You could be losing fat while the scale goes up due to water retention.
For Women: The menstrual cycle can add 2-10 pounds of water weight 5-7 days before your period due to progesterone. This is entirely normal and drops once menstruation starts. Don’t make diet changes based on PMS week weight.
For Men: Beer and other alcoholic drinks can cause significant water retention, especially around the midsection. Men also retain water after heavy strength training sessions. Reducing alcohol intake can result in a 3-5 pound drop in water weight within days.
Weigh yourself at the same time, on the same day, each week (not daily). This smooths out fluctuations.
If you actively engage in strength training or other forms of exercise, you could gain muscle while losing fat. You may not see the scale moving, but your body composition might change.
Muscle tissue weighs more than fat but takes up less space. One pound of muscle takes up less space than one pound of fat.
Result: Your body looks leaner, clothes fit better, but the scale doesn’t move (or goes up slightly).
This is especially common when:
Stop obsessing over the scale. Track these instead:
For Men: Men typically build muscle faster than women due to higher testosterone levels. The scale may stay the same or increase while losing significant belly fat. This is ideal body recomposition.
For Women: Women can absolutely build muscle, but at a slower rate than men. Don’t fear “getting bulky.” Muscle gives you that “toned” look everyone wants.
If you’re lifting weights and the scale isn’t moving but you’re getting leaner, you’re winning. Don’t let the number discourage you.
Conditions such as Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), hypothyroidism, and insulin resistance can affect weight loss. Hormones play a significant role in regulating hunger, metabolism, and fat storage. When they’re off, weight loss becomes tough.
Common conditions that affect weight loss:
Warning signs:
Consult a healthcare professional if you suspect hormonal imbalances. They can run tests for:
For Women: PCOS affects 1 in 10 women and makes weight loss significantly harder due to insulin resistance. Perimenopause (typically 40s) and menopause cause estrogen decline, slower metabolism, and increased belly fat. Birth control can also affect weight.
For Men: Testosterone naturally declines after age 30 (about 1% per year). Low testosterone leads to increased body fat, decreased muscle mass, and slower metabolism. Low testosterone is increasingly common and treatable.
Lifestyle changes can help, but some conditions require medical treatment. Check out our guide on sustainable weight loss habits that work with your hormones, not against them.
Behaviours such as emotional eating, binge eating, and restrictive eating create a vicious cycle:
These actions delay weight-loss efforts because they trigger constant cravings that lead to consuming more calories than intended or affect metabolism.
This isn’t a willpower problem. It’s a system problem.
Build a sustainable system instead:
Remember: One day of overeating won’t ruin your progress. Your deficit is based on weekly averages, not single days.
Our complete meal plan system includes 10 bounce-back meals specifically designed to get you back on track within 24 hours, no guilt, no starting over Monday.
For more on why restrictive diets backfire, read The Hidden Reason Weight Loss Fails and the Proven Solution.
Portion sizes are misleading because even healthy foods can quickly add up calories if not monitored. Beverages, dressings, and snacks contain hidden calories that can affect your overall intake, potentially leading to an underestimation of your total calorie intake.
This is incredibly common. Studies show people underestimate calorie intake by 20-50%.
Hidden calorie sources:
Track everything for 2 weeks using MyFitnessPal or Cronometer:
Reality check: That “small handful” of almonds? Probably 200 calories. That “splash” of creamer? 50 calories per cup.
For help navigating restaurant meals and hidden calories, check out our comprehensive guide, Habits Over Food, which includes a complete fast-food survival guide with exact orders for McDonald’s, Starbucks, and Subway so you can stay on track anywhere.
Knowing the number of calories burned during physical exercise is challenging, and even some fitness trackers can give inaccurate results, overestimating calorie burn by 20-30%. It is easy to overeat, leading to an unintentional false sense of accomplishment.
Example:
Then you eat back those “earned” calories and wonder why you’re not losing weight.
Another trap: “I worked out, so I can eat junk food.
Don’t undo the calories you burned through exercise (or eat back only 25-50% if you must).
Focus on diet for weight loss, exercise for:
Remember: You can’t out-exercise a bad diet. As they say, “Abs are made in the kitchen.”
Understanding the truth about calorie deficits means knowing that diet is 80% of the equation.
To understand how different dietary approaches compare, check out Carnivore vs Calorie Deficit: The Truth About Weight Loss.
When you eat in a calorie deficit for too long, your metabolism slows down as a survival mechanism. This is a survival mechanism. Your body thinks there’s a famine and becomes more efficient at using energy, burning fewer calories at rest and during activity, slowing down weight loss.
Signs of metabolic adaptation:
This is your body saying: “We need to conserve energy to survive.”
Take a diet break (yes, seriously):
This resets your metabolism, allowing you to continue losing weight afterward. According to Healthline, taking strategic diet breaks can help maintain your metabolic rate during weight loss and improve long-term results compared to continuous restriction.
For Women: Metabolic adaptation can affect menstrual cycles. If your period stops, your deficit is too aggressive. This is your body’s emergency brake.
For Men: Severe metabolic adaptation can lower testosterone, making it even harder to build/maintain muscle and lose fat.
Chronic stress can alter hunger hormones and increase cravings for high-calorie foods, hindering weight loss. Inadequate sleep reduces energy levels, making it harder to stay active and stalling weight loss.
Sleep and stress directly impact weight loss hormones:
Poor Sleep:
Chronic Stress:
Prioritize sleep hygiene:
Manage stress:
If you’re sleeping 5 hours and stressed 24/7, no diet will work optimally. Fix this first.
Ensure you get 7-9 hours of sleep each night, and prioritise stress management techniques such as yoga, deep breathing exercises, and meditation.
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Most people quit during Stage 1 because they don’t understand what’s happening. Let me show you the complete journey.
What’s Happening:
Your body is adjusting to the calorie deficit. If you’ve been yo-yo dieting, your metabolism needs time to heal.
What You’ll Experience:
Why This Happens:
Your body is in “starvation mode” from previous dieting attempts. It’s holding onto fat as a form of protection.
What to Do:
According to an article by Healthline, in this stage:
Important: This stage is NOT a failure. It’s foundation building. Skip this, and you’ll yo-yo diet forever.
This is where the magic happens.
Your metabolism has healed. Your body trusts you’re not starving it. Fat loss accelerates.
What You’ll Experience:
According to Mayo Clinic research, Most people lose about 8 pounds per month during this phase, and it’s primarily body fat, not muscle or water.
Why This Happens:
Your metabolism is running efficiently. Insulin sensitivity improves. Your body becomes a fat-burning machine.
What to Do:
This is the rewarding phase. All the work from Stage 1 pays off here.
The most crucial phase. This is where most people fail because they don’t understand what’s happening.
What You’ll Experience:
Why This Happens:
Your body has adapted to your new weight. Your metabolism is higher because you have more muscle. You genuinely need more food now.
What to Do:
Strategically increase food intake by adding:
Healthy Fats:
Quality Carbohydrates:
Check These First:
Before increasing calories, make sure increased hunger isn’t from:
The Goal: Maintain your results long-term without constant restriction.
The best body composition is one in which the body loses fat while maintaining muscle mass, a state that is easier to sustain. The body feels less hungry and nourished while producing better results from simply eating less and moving more.
Want a practical meal plan that supports you through all three stages? Get the 7-Day 1,200-Calorie Meal Plan with complete shopping lists and meal prep instructions.
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Stop fixating on the number. Look for these instead:
If you’re experiencing any of these, you’re making progress, even if the scale hasn’t moved.
Weigh yourself once per week on the same day, at the same time, under the same conditions (e.g., Friday morning after the bathroom, before breakfast, in minimal clothing).
Daily fluctuations will drive you crazy. Weekly trends show real progress.
The scale will fluctuate between 2-5 pounds regularly. This is normal and doesn’t mean you gained fat.
After a high-sodium meal, heavy workout, or hormonal changes, expect temporary increases.
Feeling slightly hungry is normal in a deficit. Not starving, but not stuffed 24/7.
However, if you’re constantly ravenous, increase your protein and vegetables (both fill you up with fewer calories).
All foods fit into a healthy diet. Restriction leads to bingeing.
The 80/20 rule: 80% nutrient-dense whole foods, 20% treats and indulgences.
No guilt. No shame. Just balance.
Alcohol temporarily stops fat burning because your body prioritizes processing the alcohol.
Plus, it lowers inhibitions, leading to late-night snacking and, in turn, overeating.
Men: Beer is particularly problematic for belly fat. Two beers = 300+ calories of liquid carbs that go straight to your midsection.
Women: Alcohol affects women differently due to lower body water content. The same drink has a more substantial effect and more calories per unit of body weight.
Limit to 1-2 drinks per week if serious about fat loss.
After workouts, walk on an incline for 15-20 minutes. It’s a simple way to increase fat loss. This is a fat-burning sweet spot:
You can also do this on non-workout days. Need ideas for staying active while traveling? Check out these 5 healthy road trip hacks.
Undereating will backfire.
Eating 800-1,000 calories might seem like it’ll speed up weight loss, but it:
Minimum for most people:
Eat enough to fuel your body while still in a deficit.
Protein and fiber are your best friends for fat loss.
Protein:
Fiber:
Aim for:
Our high-protein meal plan is designed around this exact principle: every meal keeps you satisfied while helping you burn fat.
Had a high-calorie day? Don’t panic.
Your deficit is based on weekly totals, not daily perfection.
Example:
You’re still essentially on track. Progress continues.
Stomach fat is usually the last to go. Genetically speaking, it is the last place you lose fat, so stay patient and consistent.
Certain areas lose fat last due to genetics:
You might lose weight from your face, arms, and upper body first. That’s normal.
Spot reduction is a myth. You can’t choose where you lose fat.
Stay consistent. It will come off just later than you’d like.
Progress is not always linear, and the scale might not tell the whole story. By understanding the three stages and their signs, one can make an informed decision about nutrition and exercise routine, leading to long-term, sustainable results.
If you’re tired of guessing what to eat and want a proven system, check out Habits Over Food.
Inside you’ll find:
Or start with the free 7-Day 1,200-Calorie Meal Plan to see how high-protein eating makes weight loss easier.
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Hidden calories from cooking oils, condiments, and beverages, plus weekend eating, often add up unnoticed. Water retention from sodium, hormones, or exercise can also mask fat loss. Track everything for 2-3 weeks and weigh yourself weekly, not daily, for accurate trends.
Expect noticeable results after 4 weeks, aiming for 0.5-1 kg per week. Women may take longer due to hormonal fluctuations. The first 1-8 weeks are a “reset phase” where your body adjusts before fat loss accelerates.
Yes, temporarily. Water retention (2-5 pounds), muscle gain from strength training, or hormonal changes can increase the scale even in a deficit. Focus on measurements, how clothes fit, and progress photos instead.
For most women, yes—when calories come from nutrient-dense, high-protein foods. Quality matters more than quantity. Men need a minimum of 1,500 calories. Check out our 7-Day 1,200-Calorie Meal Plan designed with filling, high-protein meals.
Track everything for one week using a food scale, including oils, condiments, and beverages. Compare to your TDEE. If you’re 300-500 calories below TDEE but not losing weight after 3-4 weeks, consider metabolic adaptation or consult a healthcare professional.
Yes, especially if you’re new to strength training. High-protein intake supports body recomposition, helping you lose fat while gaining muscle. The scale might not move, but track strength gains and measurements instead.
Water retention from sodium, carbs (1g stores 3g water), hormones, exercise, inflammation, and food in your digestive system cause normal daily fluctuations. Weigh weekly at the same time for accurate progress.
Yes. Eating under 1,000 calories triggers metabolic adaptation—your body burns fewer calories to survive. Signs: fatigue, feeling cold, poor sleep, extreme hunger. Solution: take diet breaks at maintenance calories.
No, or only 25-50%. Fitness trackers overestimate burn by 20-30%. Focus on diet for weight loss, exercise for muscle and health. You can’t out-exercise a bad diet.
Verify you’re truly in deficit, then: (1) Take a 1-2 week diet break; (2) Get blood work for thyroid/hormonal issues; (3) Recalculate TDEE; (4) Consult a professional. Don’t cut calories too low.
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